Agree
Clinical Psychologist, Psychologist
What a difficult place to be. It is hard to be supportive when you are being pushed away.
The most important thing is for you to get the emotional support that you need. Prioritise your mental and physical health which will enable you to cope with whatever will come your way.
I would continue going for marriage counselling if possible. The therapist can help you find out what your husband wants. She will probably also attempt yo motivate him to seek help for his depression. It will be far more effective if she motivates him than if you try to.
Until you have evidence to the contrary, be supportive and caring. Give your husband the space to confront his issues and move forward at his own pace.
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