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Counsellor
It sounds like even though you have tried to let your partner know that his behaviour is not OK for you, he is not willing to change it. The question may not be so much - is what he doing right or wrong? Rather, the question may be - are you prepared to be in a relationship where your partner is not willing to change, or even modify what he does even when he knows it makes you feel miserable? You may have a difficult decision to make - will you stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't meet your needs or respect your view, or will you hold your ground and risk the relationship ending? At the end of the day, you cannot make someone else change. All you can do is assertively and calmly let them know what you need, the choice about what to do with that information is up to them.
Relationship counselling may be helpful if your partner is willing to do the work of hearing your perspective and working with you on finding solutions that meet both of your needs.
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