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Health Professional
I am sorry to read that things are hard for you at the moment.
Writing as an ex-smoker (2 years and counting…) two things worked for me.
(1) I did the “one day at a time” thing - ie, I said to myself “You can have a smoke tomorrow if you want to. But, not today.”.
(2) I keep count of the $$ that I am ahead by not smoking and every so often I give myself a reward from them - a nice restaurant meal, a book or CD that I have wanted, etc.
Good luck.
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Clinical Psychologist, Psychologist
It sounds like you are smoking to comfort yourself with respect to some personal problems. Smoking has the effect of making people feel better psychologically. If you were to deal with your underlying issues you would find it easier to stop smoking and to stay quit. In order to deal with peer pressure to smoke, you need to do some planning before you go into the particular situation where people are smoking. It means some rehearsing and having a number of strategies that you can use when people offer you cigarettes and when you are drinking alcohol etc. It's more complicated than just stopping. I suggest that you find a clinical psychologist in your area who specialises in helping people to stop smoking.
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