Health Professional
I suggest that you encourage your granddaughter's parents to get her assessed by a mental health professional (a psychiatrist and/or a clinical psychologist) who has experience in adolescent mental health issues. A good assessment is the first step towards effective therapy (which may or may not include meds).
As far as her self-injury (“she is a cutter”) is concerned, you could suggest that she joins this forum: http://buslist.org/phpBB/index.php . It is a world-wide community which encourages people who self-injure to develop more helpful coping mechanisms than self-injury (I am one of its volunteer administrators).
All the best.
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Counsellor, Social Worker
My first concern for this young woman would be getting caught in the mental health system and being labeled with a disorder, before the exploration of other options first.
Young women who self-injure do so to cope with very painful and scary emotions, give them some control and at times keep them alive. Self-injury is often a life sustaining coping mechanism, which cannot simply be stopped or replaced.
Trauma is often the cause of this behavior, and is vital to explore in the treatment process, many mental health concerns are a demonstration of deep-seated, severe trauma.
Often survivors of trauma have trust issues and are reluctant to enter the mental health system, for many reasons, especially if they, like this young woman have been part of other intuitions, like the department of child safety.
I would suggest encouraging this young woman to engage with a women’s resource center, or an empathetic GP, who could refer her, under a “mental health” plan. This involves 6 sessions with a social worker, psychologist under the Better Access Medicare provision, who has experience in working with young women. Safety and trust would be the key to engage the young women.
I can provide you with numbers for Brisbane base women’s resource centers; let me know via my e-mail.
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Clinical Psychologist, Psychologist, Social Worker
Firstly I think you need to be validated for taking on the responsibility of caring for your granddaughter. Children who have been through traumatic experiences, as Belinda mentioned, have particular emotional needs and it can be very demanding on carers at times. Your love for your granddaughter comes through, and I think it's important to ensure that you also have the support you need to continue caring for her.
It certainly can seem that young people may “slip through the cracks” as you say. Specialist organisations like Headspace and CAMHS hope to prevent this on some level, though sometimes it can seem hard to get into such services in the first place. A GP is a great place to start - they may decide a private psychologist or social worker would provide adequate support, or they may feel that a tertiary service is more useful in this instance. Can I reinforce that whatever their decision, you ensure that you have enough emotional and practical support for yourself. As parents and carers it is so important to feel well in yourself in order to support others, and this can be a hard thing for all of us at times.
Best of luck.
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