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I could not agree more with the above post. While it may feel awkward discussing their suicidality, by normalising it it will help with increasing understanding. The lack of understanding is something I often hear as an additional reason for suicidal ideation.
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A. R. E. You a Life Saver? ARE you prepared?
A — Ask
R — Respond
E — Encourage
Listen carefully, reflective listening not reactive, and be curious. Ask questions gently about what, where, how, and when. Explore their feelings and take every complaint seriously.
Assess how upset the person is and ask specific questions about plans for suicide. Don’t be mislead and leave the individual alone; make the environment as safe as possible.
When you know the facts about suicide YOU CAN SAVE LIVES!
ASK direct questions:
Don’t hesitate to raise the subject.
Talking with people about suicide won’t put ideas into their heads. If you’ve observed any of the warning signs, chances are they’re already thinking about it!
Explore their PMT:
Assess their level of risk:Low RiskModerate Risk High RiskNon-Lethal Means , No Plan, Safety Plan in place, No HistoryPlan with resource, Family History, Past Attempts , Safety Plan in place Highly Lethal Plan, Method & Availability, History of Attempts, No Safety Plan
RESPOND with kindness:
Empathise with their feelings. Empathy is being sensitive to the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another without the person directly communicating these feelings. Show empathy by asking:
Take Action!
Remove any means such as guns, stockpiled pills, ropes, etc.
ENCOURAGE the person to seek professional help.
SELF-CARE:
http://www.counsellinghobart.com
I will help you through….
© Ronald Cruickshank 2012
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I agree with previous posts. Simply ask them how things are going and be prepared to hear their pain/hurt/sadness/fear. It will not be easy listening to them but it is most likely the first time someone has let them talk it out without judging them. Don't underestimate how helpful you can be by just sitting with them and lsitening to them pour their heart out.
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If you are concerned about someone it is better to err on the side of caution by asking if things are so bad they might think about doing something to end the pain. If the answer is yes continue asking if they have an idea of what they might do.
Encourage them to make an appointment with their doctor or if they want you to do this for them and if they need you to come with them. If they are suicidal but refuse your help you need to make sure that a family member is notified.
Lifeline is a good resource to phone or the nearest acute care team or you can phone 000.
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