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This is a great question especially as we are now experiencing such high levels of stress and anxiety as a society. Stress can be addressed many ways and definitely needs attending to before it has major physical and emotional impacts on the system such as fatigue, back pain, ulcers, hypertension, headaches & migraines, sleep disorders, sexual dysfunction, low immunity and of course the general ‘can’t be bothereds'!
First, things that don't work: Having an alcoholic drink to take the edge off. This can lead to multiple physical impacts on the system but ultimately it will only lead to drinking more alcohol. Having a cup of coffee as a time-out. One cup a day may be ok as a time-release however if you are consuming four or more cups of coffee a day you are putting more stress on your internal organs than you realise.
Some people use what is commonly referred to as ‘retail therapy’. This leads to impulse buying which often leads to financial difficulties and also feelings of guilt. Overeating is another common inadequate form of stress management. For obvious reasons overeating leads to major health and self esteem problems. We often crave sweet foods, such as chocolate or lollies, when we are stressed. Some research has explained that this prompts the body to release endomorphins which dull pain. They therefore have the potential to act as a buffer against stress however long term this will cause other health problems.
Smoking has obvious detrimental impacts on your health and gambling which is another common form of stress management can lead to financial difficulties as well as interpersonal problems and emotional distress.
So, what does work. Firstly assessing what are the major causes of your stress is a good start. While we can't prevent the demands of our workplace, acknowledging it as a stressor may help you start to look at where you can make changes, tiny changes to start with that might help.
Things like giving yourself a finish time at work. A time when you close the computer down, turn off the lights and actually go home is a big change for some people. Sometimes looking at workloads and seeing what can be delegated to someone else to do is a good idea. Remember that when you delegate, let go, you don't need to be hovering over someone else to make sure they do it well or the way you would do it. Otherwise you may as well not delegate.
Personal or family stressors are common. Sometimes it is essential to work out what you do control and what you don't control. Worrying about loved ones especially children is common. Using a good sounding board like a trusted friend or professional to work out if it is realistic to worry or what strategies you can try to intervene can help.
There are huge links between physical and mental health and so eating well, drinking water, cutting down on sugars and introducing some form of physical activity is great. The physical activity needs to be regular and aerobic in nature. So going for a walk (not a stroll), running, bike riding, swimming can make a big difference. This exercise should help improve your sleep.
If sleep is a problem practicing progressive muscle relaxation techniques before bed helps as well as establishing a regular bed time routine and reducing the number of electrical equipment in your bedroom. Regular meditation not only relaxes you but also helps you watch your thoughts so that you don't get caught up in thought jumping, or rumination or catastrophising - when your thoughts take to you to the worst case scenario.
Laughter is a great stress buster. So get with friends and have a good laugh. This usually provides immediate relief and can be more beneficial than a massage or a hot bath. Laughter takes us out of ourselves. Teaching us not to take life too seriously, that life does have a lighter side if we are open to seeing it. Pets, hobbies and nature can often provide great relief as well.
The ultimate stress buster is to stay present. Be aware of when your mind is taking your focus and attention away from what you are actually doing at this very present moment and taking you back to another time that was upsetting or demanding on you. Practice, or get help, to understand Mindfulness practices that will keep you present and give pleasure to everyday activities and relationships.
If you find you have consistently applied most of the above and your stress is still climbing you may need to get professional support. A good psychologist or counsellor will be able to help you unpack what is causing you stress and how to deal with it when it isn't there in front of you but still pushing around in your head.
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There are quite a few techniques out there which you can easily apply and integrate into your daily routine.
Stress reducing tools that I teach my clients are:
Mindfulness, which is beneficial because
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Stress is a complex thing that affects us all in different ways - but the good news is that some of the alternative treatments for stress don't have to be complicated - eating well, sleeping well, practising a bit of self-compassion, being kind to ourselves, exercising.. In fact exercise comes up so often in studies as a great stress and anxiety reliever..
Sometimes, however, we all need to do more, and the right kinds of counselling and mindfulness practices can help you unpack a bit more about stress and you - just what it is that is causing uncomfortable levels of stress - what thoughts and feelings are you having about stress…where is stress located in the body..can you breathe into it, can you be with it for a little while, get to know it in a different way….
So, it's a great question, and there are many different ways to address, we are all individuals and will respond differently to different things - but yes, there is much more available than medication.
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Stress should be looked at from all aspects ie. physical, nutritional and emotional. Reduction of stress will often involve implementing lifestyle changes and better health practices.
As a kinesiologist I specialise in stress and anxiety reduction and I often find it more beneficial than the counselling services I provide to my clients.
You can visit my website www.affinitywellness.com.au for more information on kinesiology for stress reduction.
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Stress can be managed, and it starts with identifying the sources of stress in your life. Looking at your habits, attitudes and excuses can help to identify these sources of stress. Unitil you accept responsibility for the role you play in creating or maintaining it, your stress level will remain outside your control. A stress journal is a great way for you to start noticing the stressors in your life and the way you deal with them, whenever you feel stressed, keep a track of it, in your journal. As you keep a daily log you will begin to see patterns and themes. you can write down:
. What caused your stress
. How you felt both physically and emotionally
. How you acted in response
. What you did to make yourself feel better
Your journal will help you identify how you cope with stress, whether it is healthy or unhealthy or helpful or unproductive? Unfortunately many people cope with stress in a way that makes the problem worse. Unhealthy way of coping with stress cause damage in the long run:
. Smoking . Over eating
. Drinking too much . Using pills or drugs
. Procastinating
. Spending long periods of time
on the computer or watching tv
. Taking out your stress on others (lashing out in anger)
LEARNING HEALTHIER WAYS TO MANAGE YOUR STRESS:
Since everyone has a unique response to stress, no single method works for everyone, try and focus on what works for you.
Avoid the unnecessary stress by
.Learning to say no
.Avoid people who stress you
.Avoid hot button topics
.Take control of your environment
Make time for fun and relaxation
.Go for a walk . work in your garden
.spend time in nature . call a friend
.watch a comedy , take a long bath
.listen to music
Do something you enjoy everyday, make time for leisure activities that bring you joy.
Keep your sense of humour:
This includes the ability to laugh at yourself, the act of laughing helps your body fight stress in a number of ways.
Adopt a healtheir life style:
. Exercise regularly . eat a healthy diet
. Reduce caffine & sugar . Avoid alcohol, cigarettes and drugs
. Get enough sleep . Learn muscle relaxation exercises
Learning deep breathing exercises can be a very helpful and an important skill to learn, it sounds silly, but many people do not breath properly. Natural brealthing involves your diaphram, a large muscle in your obdomen. When you breath in, your belly should expand, when you breath out, your belly should fall. Over time people forget how to breath this way and instead use thier chest and shoulders. This causes short and shallow breaths, which can increase stress and anxitey.
If you find it difficult to implement these strategies, I would suggest you see a counsellor or a psychologist who can assist you in addressing your issues.
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I will not linger into defining stress as it has been done quite adequately and at lengths by other professionals. But to answer your question you need to discriminate bad stress from good stress. Sometimes at work or in other circumstances stress can be productive and indeed some people thrive and perform better when under stress.
However, that does not seem to be your case at this time. therefore i would suggest make time for yourself everyday and go for a walk in a beautiful environment, practice daily meditation, enrol in a yoga course, watch some funny movies or enrol in a laughter club(they are all over the country, you can google for location). It may sound strange but laughing is the best antidote against stress at it releases serotonin (the happy hormone) in the blood stream
It does not have to be a highly structured plan to start with but if you can make room for some of these activities you will reduce the amount of stress proportionately.
All the best.
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Stress is a complex issue and has been well delt with in previous posts. Kinesiology is a holistic approach which addresses you the individual. A good practitioner will find out what it is that creates this stress in you and helps clear the blockages so you can enjoy a happier life. I am in Perth
If you are elseware I suggest you find a good kinesiology practitioner. Good Luck
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